6 Positive Discipline TechniquesFor Toddlers & PreschoolersThis page has some practical positive discipline techniques that you can use with your toddler. They are also effective with preschoolers, as my son will testify! Click here for an explanation of positive discipline.
So how exactly can you put this behaviour management technique into practice? There are a number of things you can do: Understand toddler behaviour because then you will understand that what seems anti-social to the rest of us is par for the course with this age group. After all, you wouldn't get cross with someone on crutches for walking slowly. Toddlers can't be expected to work out the social rules that we adults take for granted - it's our job to teach them, with masses of encouragement.
Communicate clearly - you cannot enforce behaviour boundaries if your little one doesn't actually understand what you want. And because language and understanding are still developing, you need to both translate the meaning of what they communicate to you, and be extra clear in the messages that you are getting across. Enforce firm boundaries - Positive discipline techniques are not the same as spoiling your toddler - quite the opposite. Decide on your limits, and stick to them. Whether it's TV, mealtimes or bath time - stick to your guns. Use distraction - diverting your child's attention from the cause of a potential tantrum is a widespread tactic - and for good reason. It's important to vary the different ways you distract your toddler - follow the link for some original examples. Reward good behaviour - as learners in the business of social interaction, toddlers need constant reassurance that they are doing the right thing, and affirmation that they are loved. Don't fall into the trap of thinking rewards = only sweets and candy. Follow this link for some sugar-free inspiration! Be affectionate - Children of this age have shaky self-esteem to say the least - they don't even know who they are yet. Whatever behaviour they display, don't bear grudges. When you have dealt with misbehaviour, cuddles and positive body language such as smiling are essential.
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